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Loving Pedagogy

Love is everywhere, but seldom talked about in the context of an early childhood setting or school.

I hope that as you explore these pages and resources, you will catch a glimpse of my passion for developing a loving pedagogy in all areas of early education.

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Tamsin Grimmer - Early Education Consultant

I have a wealth of expertise and knowledge in the area of Loving Pedagogy, and within these pages I have highlighted some of my specialist work in this area. I deliver webinars, keynotes, early years training and nursery staff training, and tailored childcare courses to meet the needs of early years organisations and practices. Please do get in touch if you would like to discuss your requirements. 

What is a Loving Pedagogy?

What do we mean by a loving pedagogy in the early years?

Love is everywhere but seldom talked about in the context of an early childhood setting or school.  My short YouTube video introduces the topic of 'Loving Pedagogy'.

What are pedagogical approaches in the early years?

The word pedagogy comes from the Greek meaning ‘to lead a child’ and often describes teaching, in terms of everything we do, provide and the rationale of why we do it that way.  So within the context of early childhood this would include what we do as pedagogues, or teachers to lead our children – the relationships we foster, the teaching strategies we employ, for example tapping into children’s fascinations and interests and taking into consideration their needs, backgrounds and strengths, the learning environment we create for play and exploration, and the ethos we adopt in our settings. By using the phrase a loving pedagogy I aim to combine the loving, caring aspects of our role and describe an approach to working with children that can underpin all aspects of our provision.

 

There are a number of different pedagogical approaches within early childhood education, for example, Froebel, Montessori, Steiner, Reggio Emilia, Curiosity Approach, Forest/Beach Schools, Te Whāriki, High/Scope, Mosaic Approach, In the Moment Planning, Trauma and Attachment aware… and many more besides. Some of these describe whole provision approaches that define the ethos of the setting and would be mutually exclusive. Schools and settings can adopt a loving pedagogy alongside their current approach because it provides the foundation upon which other philosophies and approaches can thrive.

 

Thinking about pedagogy and defining our pedagogical approach is important because as the modern proverb says, ‘If you stand for nothing, you fall for anything…’ (author unknown). Early childhood educators need to discuss as a team how they view children and childhood, their understanding of child development and theory and what they want their provision to be like, including the skills, knowledge and dispositions that they want to foster in their children. Put simply, our pedagogical approach shapes our children. Thus adopting a loving pedagogy promotes love, kindness and other prosocial behaviours.

Developing a Loving Pedagogy

Tamsin Grimmer - Developing a Loving Pedagogy in the Early Years

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Early Years Educator Magazine -
May, 2022

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10 Top Tips for Developing a Loving Pedagogy in the Early Years

There has never been a more important time to prioritise children’s wellbeing and nurture them. This calls for us to develop a ‘loving pedagogy’ and speak the language of love!

Although we do not always use the word love, we have a professional love for the children in our care and we want them to feel secure, loved and valued.

 

Read my article published for Kinderly on how to develop a loving pedagogy in the early years. 

Useful Books and Resources

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Linking Love with Nurture

In this book I have teamed up with Dr. Aaron Bradbury. Love and Nurture approaches are intertwined and impossible to focus on in isolation. This practical book for Early Years students and practitioners includes real-life case studies and examples alongside academic underpinning and essential theory. It supports students to understand and explore the need for and importance of Love and Nurture in early years practice. The book focuses on key child developmental factors including brain development, attachment awareness, love languages and nurturing touch, the science of nurture, the theory of love and nurture and building relational practice. It is the perfect companion to Developing a Loving Pedagogy!

How Love Fits with Professional Practice

In my book, 'Developing a Loving Pedagogy in the Early Years', I explore how educators can support their children by holding them in mind, valuing them and promoting their best interests. Focusing on how relationships, attachment and connections underpin our settings and practice, chapters cover:  

 

  • the fundamentals of professional love

  • appropriate touch in practice

  • the different ways in which children feel loved

  • the rights of the child

  • empowering children through love

  • working with parents and carers

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Including case studies and questions for reflection, this is vital reading for practitioners wanting to develop a nurturing and loving pedagogy that places the child at the centre of their practice.

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Loving Pedagogy Explained

Loving Pedagogy Explained highlights the importance of developing a loving pedagogy and explains key terms used within this approach. Unpicking terms like advocacy, attachment, attunement, belonging, compassion, emotion coaching, empathy and empowerment, this book uses practical examples and case studies to explain what it means in practice when we adopt this approach. It also considers how we might adopt a loving pedagogy in relation to our policies, describing this ethos in more detail.

Early Years Love & Nurture Rating Scale

Love and nurture are inseparable and are often at the heart of early childhood provision. Nurturing practices dominate early childhood pedagogy and thankfully the words love and loving are making a resurgence within early childhood education and care. In our book Love and Nurture in the Early Years we draw an analogy between tending a garden and loving and nurturing children.

 

This tool is intended to be used as the basis for discussion, self-evaluation and review. We hope it is helpful to you, and your children benefit from reviewing loving and nurturing practices in your provision.

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Early Education Journal

I wrote an article on Loving Pedagogy in the Spring, 2022 edition of Early Education Journal. For Early Education site members or those wishing to sign up, I have included a link here

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Articles

I have written a number of articles on the topic of Loving Pedagogy.

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The language of love

Loving is organised into five languages

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What's love got to do with it?

The importance of love in early childhood

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Meaningful Connections

Unfolding a loving pedagogy

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Empowering Children

Through listening with love

Podcasts

In episode 27 of Team Early Childhood series I'm interviewed by host Aaron Bradbury on 'Developing a loving pedagogy'.

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In episode 122 of Foundation Stage Forum podcasts, I'm interviewed by Jules to discuss 'Love in Early Years Practice.'

In episode 89 on 13th October 2023 I was interviewed by Andy Burt, Early Excellence to discuss a loving pedagogy.

Additional Resources

For more resources about loving pedagogy, including articles, videos and podcasts, visit the Resources page.

Loving Pedagogy Training Courses

Loving Pedagogy Masterclass

In this course, Tamsin explains the meaning of the phrase 'Loving Pedagogy' and the vital, underpinning importance of a Loving Pedagogy when working with children of every age. She details the theory and gives worked examples of the 5 different love languages.

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Christian Perspective on
Loving Pedagogy

As a Christian, I have felt a clear calling to demonstrate God's love to young children and educators through my career. My work around developing a loving pedagogy stems from this. Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these” (Matthew 19:14). We can all follow this example and demonstrate God’s love to children and families.
 
Love should underpin all aspects of our lives, both personally and professionally, and from my perspective love stems from our loving God and creator. I would be happy to talk with you more about my ethos and beliefs. Whatever your personal convictions, I hope that a loving pedagogy will inspire you and underpin your practice with children.

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Contact Details

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Tel: 07793 060077

 

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